What you are about to read happened to me last week, I just had to bring it here, because the more I try to wrap my head around it, the more questions comes to mind.
About a month ago I moved to another city, but considering its a totally different culture, I have just been gradually trying to settle in. So, on Tuesday Last week, I noticed a plumbing issue in my room, for which I went to seek the caretaker who lives within the compound. I later found him in one of the rooms trying to fix some things for another new tenant who I will refer to as Sandra henceforth. I laid my complaints to the man and briefly spoke with Sandra who told me aje was an undergraduate.
About an hour later, the caretaker came to my room to checkout the problem I was having, Sandra came with him, and as we were making small talks, she walked into my kitchen and pointed out that my pots and other cooking utensils were still new and unused, then i told her I haven't started cooking because I don't know my way around yet, so I haven't been to the market. She then offered to go to the market with me whenever I was ready.
The next day being Wednesday I made a list of things to buy, among which were some packaged and canned foods, for this we went to a mall. After picking the items, we had to join the queue at the payment point, while there, I remembered some things which I needed but haven't included in my list, so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN considering it was almost our turn in the queue, then went to pick those things. Now, I did this because, I didn't want a situation where after paying for the original items, I will have to join a fresh queue with the new items. Although I came back just as she was about to pay, so I was able to include the new items, we paid and left. Suffice to say that I had her pick one or two things for herself.
On getting home, I immediately went to an ATM and changed my PIN, just to be safe.
Two days later, Sandra came to my room sound 7:15pm telling me she wanted to go buy relaxer and shampoo but as its getting dark that she can't go alone, and she asked that I come with her, I obliged, as you would expect.
After buying the shampoo, we started heading home. Now, there are two possible routes home, the sandy road which was nearer and the tarred road which was farther, Sandra then insisted we take the tarred road saying she didn't want sand on her feet, but that was the route we took while going.
Just as we approached my compound, 3 guys rounded us up and told us to handover everything we had on us. I have to point out that after this whole incident, I could recall that while we were walking home, Sandra was texting on her phone and kept looking back. When one of the guys made the request, Sandra now asked them 'for what' immediately one of the guys landed her a slap and pushed her down. Then he turned to me and gave me a blow to the mouth saying I was wasting his time, then he reached for my back pocket and retrieved my wallet, then he asked me the PIN, I gave him a wrong PIN the first time and this was met with a hot slap to my face, then he asked again and i gave him the same PIN again, then he gave me a kick to the hip, I was almost paralysed, he now grabbed my throat, I had no choice than to give him the real PIN, then he left me and they ran off. Interestingly, the PIN I gave to him was the old PIN which I changed few days ago, but my intention was not to lie, in fact I meant to tell the truth, but then that PIN had stuck to my memory+ as I have been using it for the past 3 years.
Immediately they left, I made a dash for my room, with Sandra in hot pursuit, but I didn't let her come to my room with me, I called the bank Customer Service and told them to block my card, although the thieves had the wrong PIN, I felt they could still compromise the card.
The next day, Sandra was in my room and she kept trying to get me to talk about the incident of the last day, but I wasn't interested, she kept asking me, if the PIN I gave them was the right one, I mean it should be, after all that was the right PIN as far as she knew, she asked if I could recognise the guys, I said no, she asked if its possible for the card to be hacked without the PIN, I was just acting ignorant, but I've already started having my reservations about her.
Later, I decided out of curiosity to check Sandra out on Facebook, while checking the photos on her profile, I saw pictures she took and uploaded with the same guy that slapped and pushed her down while we were been robbed, I was dumbfounded to say the least.
Then it became clear to me, she set me up to be robbed. Now my questions are,
Why did she insist we take the tarred road, considering we took the sandy road while going to the Shop
How come the thieves reached straight into the pocket with my wallet?
How come they never asked for our mobile phones, naturally, that should be their first question
How come immediately I gave the guy the 'right' PIN he acceded?
Who was Sandra texting while we walked home
And, the FB picture shows she knows the guy after all.
My problem now is, should I confront Sandra d tell her I know what happened or should I just let it slide? Since that day she's been trying to cosy up to me, but the more she tries the more I become worried and wary.
Monday, 5 December 2016
Kidnapped Dangote’s Senior Strategist Murdered, Body Dumped In Gutter
A senior strategist with Dangote Industries Limited, Istifanus Bello Gurama, who was reportedly kidnapped three weeks ago, has been murdered.
Reliable sources say Gurama’s body was found in the gutter, adding that one of the kidnappers must have alerted a member of the public to where the body was.
Gurama was believed to have been kidnapped three weeks ago but news of his murder got to his family members (today) Monday.
Sources close to him told our correspondent that as a senior strategist, Gurama was in charge of negotiations and handing ransom payment to kidnappers whenever any of the expatriates in Dangote Industries was kidnapped.
The day Gurama was allegedly kidnapped, he was said to have gone, as usual, to negotiate and pay ransom money for the release of one of the expatriates. However, on getting there, the kidnappers reportedly said he was the one they were after and he was subsequently detained.
A close friend who refused to be named said Gurama showed him some of the videos of his negotiations with kidnappers.
During a visit to her on Monday, Gurama‘s wife of 20 years, Amina, was inconsolable.
She lamented, “Gurama was a lovely person, if he is not in the house one day, the children will be asking after him endlessly.
“Now, I do not know what to tell the children because he is always chatting with them on social media and phone and for three weeks since his disappearance, they have been wondering where he was because all his activities on social media ceased and the children have observed that it is quite unlike him.”
A key source in the Dangote Industries who confirmed the kidnap however reacted to the news of Gurama’s murder with surprise.
When contacted, the Head, Media of the firm, Mr. Tony Chiejina who said Gurama was very close to him, also reacted with surprise to the news of his death.
He informed our correspondent that he will make some calls and get back to her.
But he has yet to do that as at the time of going to the press.
Reliable sources say Gurama’s body was found in the gutter, adding that one of the kidnappers must have alerted a member of the public to where the body was.
Gurama was believed to have been kidnapped three weeks ago but news of his murder got to his family members (today) Monday.
Sources close to him told our correspondent that as a senior strategist, Gurama was in charge of negotiations and handing ransom payment to kidnappers whenever any of the expatriates in Dangote Industries was kidnapped.
The day Gurama was allegedly kidnapped, he was said to have gone, as usual, to negotiate and pay ransom money for the release of one of the expatriates. However, on getting there, the kidnappers reportedly said he was the one they were after and he was subsequently detained.
A close friend who refused to be named said Gurama showed him some of the videos of his negotiations with kidnappers.
During a visit to her on Monday, Gurama‘s wife of 20 years, Amina, was inconsolable.
She lamented, “Gurama was a lovely person, if he is not in the house one day, the children will be asking after him endlessly.
“Now, I do not know what to tell the children because he is always chatting with them on social media and phone and for three weeks since his disappearance, they have been wondering where he was because all his activities on social media ceased and the children have observed that it is quite unlike him.”
A key source in the Dangote Industries who confirmed the kidnap however reacted to the news of Gurama’s murder with surprise.
When contacted, the Head, Media of the firm, Mr. Tony Chiejina who said Gurama was very close to him, also reacted with surprise to the news of his death.
He informed our correspondent that he will make some calls and get back to her.
But he has yet to do that as at the time of going to the press.
Girl Dies During Scuffle With Her Boyfriend
A Nigerian girl identified as Okonikhere Joy -reportedly died on Saturday night during a quarrel with her boyfriend. According to Facebook user; May Ebute who shared the sad news -neighbours woke up to find the lady's dead body and her boyfriend missing. He was apprehended yesterday and he said, during the scuffle, he just put his hands around her neck to scare her and she stopped breathing.
Read below how it was shared by the Facebook user;
So Okonikhere joy died last night during a scuffle with her boyfriend. Neighbours woke up to find her dead body and her boyfriend missing. He was apprehended earlier today and he said, during the scuffle, he just put his hands around her neck to scare her and she stopped breathing. He said he didn't mean to kill her. How can just putting your hands around someone's neck kill them if not that the person was strangled?
Well she's dead now and no amount of ' l didn't mean to kill her' will bring her back.
I just spoke with her brother and he confirmed the news.The murderer is presently cooling off in a police cell. I wish l could find the words to express the anger l'm feeling right now. May the soul of this lady rest in peace.
May her soul RIP
Read below how it was shared by the Facebook user;
So Okonikhere joy died last night during a scuffle with her boyfriend. Neighbours woke up to find her dead body and her boyfriend missing. He was apprehended earlier today and he said, during the scuffle, he just put his hands around her neck to scare her and she stopped breathing. He said he didn't mean to kill her. How can just putting your hands around someone's neck kill them if not that the person was strangled?
Well she's dead now and no amount of ' l didn't mean to kill her' will bring her back.
I just spoke with her brother and he confirmed the news.The murderer is presently cooling off in a police cell. I wish l could find the words to express the anger l'm feeling right now. May the soul of this lady rest in peace.
May her soul RIP
Fayose Faults Buhari Christmas Bonus For Workers
Governor Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti State has faulted the Federal Government’s decision to increase the workers’ Pay As You Earn, PAYE, tax, pension and National Housing Fund (NHF) deductions, which were applied on gross salary, making some of the workers to have as much 30 per cent reduction in salary.
He described the policy as obnoxious and capable of impoverishing the already pauperised workers, especially now that the country is under an economic recession. The governor said it was wicked and inhuman for any government to increase taxes on workers salary at this period of economic recession when “workers take home can no longer take them home,” adding that; “The Federal Government should stop believing that the only way it can take Nigeria out of recession is to impose obnoxious taxes that will further impoverish the people.”
Fayose and BuhariFayose and Buhari In a statement issued yesterday by the governor’s Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media, Lere Olayinka, he said; “If government does not have capacity to increase workers salary at this trying period, it should not also increase taxes that will cause decrement in what they earn.” Salary of Federal Government workers was reportedly reduced through increment in PAYE tax, pension, National Housing Fund, NHF, formerly based on consolidated, which were applied on gross salary.
Some of the workers had as much as 30 per cent pay cut. Reacting further, Governor Fayose said it appeared that the President Muhammadu Buhari-led All Progressives Congress, APC, federal government’s desire was to kill Nigerians with obnoxious taxes. He said; “As military head of state, Buhari used gun to deal with Nigerians, now as a civilian president, he is using economic recession to punish Nigerians and adding salt to injury by using inhuman taxes to reduce workers salary.”
“Buhari’s government increased petrol price from N87 to N145 per litre, kerosene; diesel and gas price was increased, electricity tariff was increased, N50 stamp duty was imposed on bank customers, N65 levy was imposed on every withdrawal on ATM, various bank charges introduced, custom duties increased and now workers’ PAYE tax has been increased.
He described the policy as obnoxious and capable of impoverishing the already pauperised workers, especially now that the country is under an economic recession. The governor said it was wicked and inhuman for any government to increase taxes on workers salary at this period of economic recession when “workers take home can no longer take them home,” adding that; “The Federal Government should stop believing that the only way it can take Nigeria out of recession is to impose obnoxious taxes that will further impoverish the people.”
Fayose and BuhariFayose and Buhari In a statement issued yesterday by the governor’s Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media, Lere Olayinka, he said; “If government does not have capacity to increase workers salary at this trying period, it should not also increase taxes that will cause decrement in what they earn.” Salary of Federal Government workers was reportedly reduced through increment in PAYE tax, pension, National Housing Fund, NHF, formerly based on consolidated, which were applied on gross salary.
Some of the workers had as much as 30 per cent pay cut. Reacting further, Governor Fayose said it appeared that the President Muhammadu Buhari-led All Progressives Congress, APC, federal government’s desire was to kill Nigerians with obnoxious taxes. He said; “As military head of state, Buhari used gun to deal with Nigerians, now as a civilian president, he is using economic recession to punish Nigerians and adding salt to injury by using inhuman taxes to reduce workers salary.”
“Buhari’s government increased petrol price from N87 to N145 per litre, kerosene; diesel and gas price was increased, electricity tariff was increased, N50 stamp duty was imposed on bank customers, N65 levy was imposed on every withdrawal on ATM, various bank charges introduced, custom duties increased and now workers’ PAYE tax has been increased.
Justice Ademola And Wife’s Absence Stalls Arraignment
Justice Adeniyi Ademola of a Federal High Court in Abuja and his wife, Olabowale, who is the Head of Service of Lagos State, were scheduled to be arraigned on Monday before a High Court of the Federal Capital Territory, Maitama, on charges of receiving gratification, but the arraignment could not proceed because of their absence.
The defendants were absent because they had not been served with the charges.
The trial judge, Justice Jude Okeke, adjourned the matter till December 13, 2016, after the defendants’ lawyer, Mr. Jeph Njikonye, volunteered to accept service on behalf of his clients.
Lead prosecuting counsel, Mr. Segun Jegede, had told the trial judge that court bail bailiffs attempted to serve the couple with the charges but they were said to have travelled to Lagos.
He said he was going to ask the court to give an order for service on the defendants through substituted means but that was no longer necessary as the defence counsel had approached him before the proceedings commenced volunteering to accept service on behalf of the defendants.
Jegede urged the court to grant leave to serve the defendants through their lawyer on the strength of section 382(5) of the Administration of Criminal Justice Act.
Njikonye, although, expressed readiness to accept service on behalf of his clients, said he was not aware of attempts to serve the couple personally and so section 382(5) of the ACJA was not application.
The defence lawyer however submitted that the court under its inherent powers grant the leave for service.
Justice Okeke, in his ruling, said record showed that a court bailiff attempted to serve the defendants in Abuja, on December 2, but were said to have travelled to Lagos.
The defendants were absent because they had not been served with the charges.
The trial judge, Justice Jude Okeke, adjourned the matter till December 13, 2016, after the defendants’ lawyer, Mr. Jeph Njikonye, volunteered to accept service on behalf of his clients.
Lead prosecuting counsel, Mr. Segun Jegede, had told the trial judge that court bail bailiffs attempted to serve the couple with the charges but they were said to have travelled to Lagos.
He said he was going to ask the court to give an order for service on the defendants through substituted means but that was no longer necessary as the defence counsel had approached him before the proceedings commenced volunteering to accept service on behalf of the defendants.
Jegede urged the court to grant leave to serve the defendants through their lawyer on the strength of section 382(5) of the Administration of Criminal Justice Act.
Njikonye, although, expressed readiness to accept service on behalf of his clients, said he was not aware of attempts to serve the couple personally and so section 382(5) of the ACJA was not application.
The defence lawyer however submitted that the court under its inherent powers grant the leave for service.
Justice Okeke, in his ruling, said record showed that a court bailiff attempted to serve the defendants in Abuja, on December 2, but were said to have travelled to Lagos.
1.2million Nigerians To Get Soft Loan
At least 1.2 million Nigerians will be given soft loans which attract between two and three per cent interest rate as part of efforts to create jobs under government’s social investment programme.
Mr Laolu Akande, the Senior Special Assistant to the Vice President on Media and Publicity, in Abuja on Sunday said that government was synergizing with its enterprise agencies and the private sector to achieve the goal.
He named the agencies as the Small and Medium Enterprises Development Agency of Nigeria (SMEDAN), Bank of Industry (BOI), Bank of Agriculture, the National Directorate of Employment(NDE), among others.
“About 1.2 million Nigerians are going to be given soft loans, may be at two or three per cent, loans of N20,000 to N50,000, N100,000, the traders, for people that have small businesses.
“We are going to be using co-operatives, so all these groups mentioned will be working together because we believe small and medium enterprises are very critical to the recovery and rejuvenation of the economy.
“So, we are working to design all kind of intervention financial facilities since we are not getting the kind of affordable loans in the main banking sector.
He said that government was using the intervention funds to release money to small and medium scale enterprises so that they can trade with the money at very little interest rate.
He said that the Federal Government was hoping to do more for Nigerians using the intervention fund as part of its social investment programme.
He said that the SMEDAN, BOI, Bank of Agriculture, NDE, others had been harnessed to provide such support.
Akande said that government would continue to use resources from the agencies to actively boost social investment programmes.
“We are working with these agencies to have that kind of glory of affordable loan to 1.2 million Nigerians to do trading of different kinds,’’ he added.
Mr Laolu Akande, the Senior Special Assistant to the Vice President on Media and Publicity, in Abuja on Sunday said that government was synergizing with its enterprise agencies and the private sector to achieve the goal.
He named the agencies as the Small and Medium Enterprises Development Agency of Nigeria (SMEDAN), Bank of Industry (BOI), Bank of Agriculture, the National Directorate of Employment(NDE), among others.
“About 1.2 million Nigerians are going to be given soft loans, may be at two or three per cent, loans of N20,000 to N50,000, N100,000, the traders, for people that have small businesses.
“We are going to be using co-operatives, so all these groups mentioned will be working together because we believe small and medium enterprises are very critical to the recovery and rejuvenation of the economy.
“So, we are working to design all kind of intervention financial facilities since we are not getting the kind of affordable loans in the main banking sector.
He said that government was using the intervention funds to release money to small and medium scale enterprises so that they can trade with the money at very little interest rate.
He said that the Federal Government was hoping to do more for Nigerians using the intervention fund as part of its social investment programme.
He said that the SMEDAN, BOI, Bank of Agriculture, NDE, others had been harnessed to provide such support.
Akande said that government would continue to use resources from the agencies to actively boost social investment programmes.
“We are working with these agencies to have that kind of glory of affordable loan to 1.2 million Nigerians to do trading of different kinds,’’ he added.
Fraudsters Hack Email, Defraud Estate Agent Of N4m
Three suspected Internet fraudsters have been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command for allegedly defrauding an estate agent of about N4m.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the suspects– Olisa Oyegbuka, 28; Ifeannacho Kingsley, 27; and Ujumwa Aniemena, 33–had allegedly hacked into the email of an unnamed client of the estate agent.
They allegedly sent a message from the email to the agent, demanding the transfer of funds kept for the client by the estate agent into some accounts.
The fraud was later discovered after the owner of the account received alerts and subsequently called the agent to demand explanation for the flight of funds from his account.
The case was reported to operatives of the Rapid Response Squad which launched a manhunt for the suspects.
Our correspondent gathered that the three suspects were arrested in Awka, Anambra State.
It was learnt that the suspects were part of a syndicate that specialised in hacking into email addresses and using them to send messages seeking transfer of funds in tranches to different accounts.
The estate agent, who did not want to be identified, said, “The owner of the email account is my client. I received an email giving instruction to transfer funds in my custody to an account belonging to one Emmanuel Ajinubi.
“I transferred N800,000 to the account on October 24, 2016. On October 27, 2016, there was another instruction to transfer N530,000 to the same account, which I did.
“On November 1, 2016, I transferred N720,000 to another account belonging to one Ifenancho Kingsley.
“I received further instruction the following day to pay N850,000 to the same account. The total amount transferred to the two accounts was N3, 820,000.
“On November 2, 2016, my client called me and that was when we realised that the payment instructions did not emanate from him; rather, they were from fraudsters.”
One of the suspects, Kingsley, admitted that two separate transactions of N720,000 and N850,000 were paid to his account.
He, however, explained that a family friend, Chinedu Emmanuel, had requested his account details and took his Automated Teller Machine card and Personal Identification Number to withdraw the money.
“The first alert of N720, 000 that I got on my phone was withdrawn from my account within a twinkling of an eye.
“The following day, I got another alert of N850,000. And almost instantly, there were lots of POS transactions bearing ‘Grand POS’ Asaba. Since then, I have not seen him and I don’t know the kind of job he does. As I talk to you, my ATM card is still with him,” he added.
Another suspect, Oyegbuka, said his friend, Egbuka, who was arrested by the RRS a few weeks earlier, used his (Oyegbuka) account to transfer N800,000 to another account belonging to one Tamino.
RRS investigators said efforts were on to arrest fleeing members of the gang.
The Police Public Relations Officer, SP Dolapo Badmos, warned criminals using other states as a base to perpetrate crime in Lagos that the command would get them from their hideouts.
“The three suspects have been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department for further investigations,” she added.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the suspects– Olisa Oyegbuka, 28; Ifeannacho Kingsley, 27; and Ujumwa Aniemena, 33–had allegedly hacked into the email of an unnamed client of the estate agent.
They allegedly sent a message from the email to the agent, demanding the transfer of funds kept for the client by the estate agent into some accounts.
The fraud was later discovered after the owner of the account received alerts and subsequently called the agent to demand explanation for the flight of funds from his account.
The case was reported to operatives of the Rapid Response Squad which launched a manhunt for the suspects.
Our correspondent gathered that the three suspects were arrested in Awka, Anambra State.
It was learnt that the suspects were part of a syndicate that specialised in hacking into email addresses and using them to send messages seeking transfer of funds in tranches to different accounts.
The estate agent, who did not want to be identified, said, “The owner of the email account is my client. I received an email giving instruction to transfer funds in my custody to an account belonging to one Emmanuel Ajinubi.
“I transferred N800,000 to the account on October 24, 2016. On October 27, 2016, there was another instruction to transfer N530,000 to the same account, which I did.
“On November 1, 2016, I transferred N720,000 to another account belonging to one Ifenancho Kingsley.
“I received further instruction the following day to pay N850,000 to the same account. The total amount transferred to the two accounts was N3, 820,000.
“On November 2, 2016, my client called me and that was when we realised that the payment instructions did not emanate from him; rather, they were from fraudsters.”
One of the suspects, Kingsley, admitted that two separate transactions of N720,000 and N850,000 were paid to his account.
He, however, explained that a family friend, Chinedu Emmanuel, had requested his account details and took his Automated Teller Machine card and Personal Identification Number to withdraw the money.
“The first alert of N720, 000 that I got on my phone was withdrawn from my account within a twinkling of an eye.
“The following day, I got another alert of N850,000. And almost instantly, there were lots of POS transactions bearing ‘Grand POS’ Asaba. Since then, I have not seen him and I don’t know the kind of job he does. As I talk to you, my ATM card is still with him,” he added.
Another suspect, Oyegbuka, said his friend, Egbuka, who was arrested by the RRS a few weeks earlier, used his (Oyegbuka) account to transfer N800,000 to another account belonging to one Tamino.
RRS investigators said efforts were on to arrest fleeing members of the gang.
The Police Public Relations Officer, SP Dolapo Badmos, warned criminals using other states as a base to perpetrate crime in Lagos that the command would get them from their hideouts.
“The three suspects have been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department for further investigations,” she added.
How To Get A Husband On Uber
I just heard rumours that some girls have been quietly meeting their husbands in Uber and they have refused to make this information public so desperate single girls don’t ruin the system.
In fact, one of my friends have marked Uber as her number one place to tie down a husband in 2017.
According to my friend, her colleague used an Uber earlier this year and she and the Uber guy got talking like old buddies. When she was about alighting, they exchanged contacts and the rest they say is history. She is about to walk down the aisle with him in a few weeks.
“Uber drivers are on par with regular cab men! I don’t want to marry a driver.” You might say. This is false.
The guy she met has three cars he hired people to use for Uber. One of these cars was enrolled for UBER Select, the luxury and pricey service by Uber where a G-Wagon or Range Rover could pick you.
So rich guy was bored one weekend and he decided to do cabu-cabu with the Range Rover. That is how he met the girl!
If you’ve decided to try your husband hunting in Uber, take note of these tips.
1 If you want rich husband use Uber Black.
2 If your Uber Driver arrives wearing a marriage band, cancel the trip!
3 Sit in the frontseat beside the Uber driver and not at the back like a madam. No man has the time to be twisting & turning his neck to chat with you.
4 Be polite and act like a lady. Every single Uber driver is a potential husband.
5 Don’t use an Uber to indecent places. Even if the Uber driver is not interested in you, he might have an unmarried oga or brother.
6 Ladies, don’t use Uber with ‘your squad’. Your bestie might snatch your prospective husband before your very own eyes.
7 Act like a wife material whenever you are in the Uber of a prospective husband. Pray with him at the start & end of a trip, play gospel music from your mobile phone, speak in tongues to the driver. If possible cook in the Uber.
I wish you all goodluck
In fact, one of my friends have marked Uber as her number one place to tie down a husband in 2017.
According to my friend, her colleague used an Uber earlier this year and she and the Uber guy got talking like old buddies. When she was about alighting, they exchanged contacts and the rest they say is history. She is about to walk down the aisle with him in a few weeks.
“Uber drivers are on par with regular cab men! I don’t want to marry a driver.” You might say. This is false.
The guy she met has three cars he hired people to use for Uber. One of these cars was enrolled for UBER Select, the luxury and pricey service by Uber where a G-Wagon or Range Rover could pick you.
So rich guy was bored one weekend and he decided to do cabu-cabu with the Range Rover. That is how he met the girl!
If you’ve decided to try your husband hunting in Uber, take note of these tips.
1 If you want rich husband use Uber Black.
2 If your Uber Driver arrives wearing a marriage band, cancel the trip!
3 Sit in the frontseat beside the Uber driver and not at the back like a madam. No man has the time to be twisting & turning his neck to chat with you.
4 Be polite and act like a lady. Every single Uber driver is a potential husband.
5 Don’t use an Uber to indecent places. Even if the Uber driver is not interested in you, he might have an unmarried oga or brother.
6 Ladies, don’t use Uber with ‘your squad’. Your bestie might snatch your prospective husband before your very own eyes.
7 Act like a wife material whenever you are in the Uber of a prospective husband. Pray with him at the start & end of a trip, play gospel music from your mobile phone, speak in tongues to the driver. If possible cook in the Uber.
I wish you all goodluck
Pastor And Wife Killed By Robbers On Their Way From Convention
Suspected robbers have killed the pastor and his wife while they were on their way back to Taraba State after the NKST Church World-wide Choir conference held at Jaki, Kwande LGA of Benue State on Friday, Idoma Voice reports.
An Eyewitness has this to say: "I stopped at Gawa at about 8:14 this morning to buy some foodstuffs on my way to Bali to buy yams when some youngmen walked to men saying its better to getthe yams in the evening when the market is closing. Little did I know I was the target. Pushing me to hit the road so they can waste me... Oh God.. The pastor arrived shortly with a Toyota picnic. They bought yams I even helped to negotiate with the seller. We took off the same time before I stopped to excrete. Just seconds we heard gun shots and that was how they wasted this couple"Ben Dizwa, who confirmed the sad incident, identified the pastor as Mr. Joseph Tsafa, a retired police inspector who was one of the participant from NKST Nachi-Bali Classis in Taraba State.
According to his Facebook post:
"He left the event venue with his wife, Cecilia Tsafa, the woman leader (Kwase-hemen) of NKST Nachi-Bali Consistory women Fellowship, and Atese Anum (a pastor's wife) on Friday evening for Zakibiam where they stayed through the night. Early this morning,(Saturday) the couple set out for Bali LGA of Taraba State where they are based. In Katsina-Ala, they assisted two women who were heading towards their direction making their number, five in the vehicle.At about 9am on Saturday morning of 3rd December, 2016, they passed a place called Gidan Gawa along Katsina-Ala —Takum road in Taraba State. There is a portion of road that is terribly bad that vehicles must slow down to avoid accident or damage, so they also slowed down.
Strangely, some armed young men came out of the bush and ordered them to stop and they simply obeyed. The came forth and demanded for money from Mr Tsafa. What really happened that led to a gun shot could not be ascertained by even eye witness but it is thought that the man had no enough money for them having stay away for nearly two weeks which they become annoyed and shot him still on the steering.
The bullet shot at the man penetrated and also killed his wife who was seated in the front seat. The remaining three persons who were seated at the back seat were not shot, they were searched and valuables taking away from them. As I write, the corpses of the couple has been deposited at a mortuary in Zakibiam, Ukum LGA."
An Eyewitness has this to say: "I stopped at Gawa at about 8:14 this morning to buy some foodstuffs on my way to Bali to buy yams when some youngmen walked to men saying its better to getthe yams in the evening when the market is closing. Little did I know I was the target. Pushing me to hit the road so they can waste me... Oh God.. The pastor arrived shortly with a Toyota picnic. They bought yams I even helped to negotiate with the seller. We took off the same time before I stopped to excrete. Just seconds we heard gun shots and that was how they wasted this couple"Ben Dizwa, who confirmed the sad incident, identified the pastor as Mr. Joseph Tsafa, a retired police inspector who was one of the participant from NKST Nachi-Bali Classis in Taraba State.
According to his Facebook post:
"He left the event venue with his wife, Cecilia Tsafa, the woman leader (Kwase-hemen) of NKST Nachi-Bali Consistory women Fellowship, and Atese Anum (a pastor's wife) on Friday evening for Zakibiam where they stayed through the night. Early this morning,(Saturday) the couple set out for Bali LGA of Taraba State where they are based. In Katsina-Ala, they assisted two women who were heading towards their direction making their number, five in the vehicle.At about 9am on Saturday morning of 3rd December, 2016, they passed a place called Gidan Gawa along Katsina-Ala —Takum road in Taraba State. There is a portion of road that is terribly bad that vehicles must slow down to avoid accident or damage, so they also slowed down.
Strangely, some armed young men came out of the bush and ordered them to stop and they simply obeyed. The came forth and demanded for money from Mr Tsafa. What really happened that led to a gun shot could not be ascertained by even eye witness but it is thought that the man had no enough money for them having stay away for nearly two weeks which they become annoyed and shot him still on the steering.
The bullet shot at the man penetrated and also killed his wife who was seated in the front seat. The remaining three persons who were seated at the back seat were not shot, they were searched and valuables taking away from them. As I write, the corpses of the couple has been deposited at a mortuary in Zakibiam, Ukum LGA."
WHERE ARE THE DECENT GIRLS?
I am in dire need of some suggestions or ideas in a starting a good and healthy relationship that would lead to marriage.
I am 25 years young, graduated since 2012/2013 with a very good career which would last me a lifetime since I am my own boss. (Meaning I work for myself with some people managing my business).
While I was in school, I was that guy a lot of girls would go out with, I wouldn't say much but to cut it short (Money wasn't a problem) Not saying I spend money on girls but I roll pretty good enough to get almost any girl back then. of course I had all the fun when I was not in a serious relationship.
The girl I hoped to marry, I found out a lot of things that made me doubt our future together. Our relationship ended after about 2 years being together. (She's married now and with the way she's trying to tempt me into committing adultery, I'm glad I didn't marry her)
After graduation, I moved on my own to a new city where I settled. With time, got into a relationship which lasted just about 3-4 months with a working class girl before I called it a quit due to facts I discovered (double dater). Don't ask me how sure I was because getting to meet her later, she didn't get to deny it anymore, instead, she was still doing the same with me. (Sleeping with me while dating someone else) until I found out and did away wither her completely again.
Right about 2 years ago, I met this innocent looking beautiful girl I wouldn't need anyone to tell me she was a bit innocent, I pulled over, talked to her friend as she wouldn't alter any word at all, got her friend's contact and zoomed off after giving them a drop at their destination.
Getting to let her know my intentions was pretty hard as communication was a problem (claimed she doesn't have a phone then)
About a month later, I got to finally see her, she visited me and that was how we started off a relationship. (Then she was 19).
Then, I could never have wished for someone better as she was completely loyal and shy girl who doesn't want to be anywhere around strangers or people. During this time, she was in one of the tertiary institution already.
After sometime, things began to change, I could tell a lot of influence and youthful exuberance affecting her with few bad and irrelevant friends/activities.
She was no longer the girl I used to know,
Moving around was now a hobby, she wouldn't use any of her time productively, having misplaced priorities and found lies as a hobby.
Note that during this period, I made sure she didn't lack anything, was even a point she was pregnant and almost gave her one of my Cars I don't drive before an unexpected happened(she lost it, claimed she had an accident, next day the mother called me to complain of blood all over the bed, miscarriage) I didn't want to believe that was truly want happened and not her aborting it but I had no choice than to take it that way.
Note that during this time, her parents, brothers were fully aware of everything about us as they do always like to see me around. Things was all peaceful then until these youthful exuberance started affecting her and our relationship so bad until I called it a quit as she wasn't getting any better coupled with me spending too much money on her already and same time, getting a lot of reasons to see I might not get a peaceful home with her. Mostly out of careless utterances, how her parents trained her and other issues I found to be real troubles.
At a point we began having problems almost everyday that would require the family's attention, settle and advises here and there but things wasn't getting any better after much patience all along.
It was so painful to call it quit but I had no other option since the problems arising was too much and becoming too embarrassing to me and both the family even when its just a relationship.
Now this is my problem:
Having been in the previous relationship, I was such a faithful guy that I did away with a lot of things and no other girl.
I came from a home where I am the only guy with frequent questions about marriage from my dad (mum's late), some family members, people and some neighbours who feels I am in a best position to marry. (Maybe because I live comfortably enough, maybe because I leave decent enough with good morals) whatever the case is, I still think and wish to marry soon.
On my last relationship I just discontinued, I remember the dad always making mentions of her finishing her studies first (about at least 2-3 years more to go) and all that not yet talk. (All these while, things have not been good for the family so I gave her almost all the support.)
Discontinued the relationship was something I never saw coming or expected but it was the best thing to save me.
Now my problem is getting to start all over again.
How do I get a girl decent enough to consider as a wife?
Almost every girl I meet these days have to see me as one of those guys. (Though I am not very flashy but they think I look good or comfortable enough to be like every other guy as I am still very young)
I really don't want to let them know me to some certain extent because they might just give in because of that and not for doing the right thing/being real.
I finally made up a decision not dating any girl still in school because I can't cope with many of the nonsense they exhibits and all those childish ways of reasoning and acts.
I don't know how I can meet a more decent lady I can trust because I'm barely around people, I hate to pull over talking to a girl, I don't do gatherings and I can not find a girl I meet on a social media trustworthy.
The problem with most of the few ones I have met is they feel I am just like these other guys who just want to take advantage of them and move on to the next or they end up not having the characters of who I want as a wife.
I am not saying I ask for too much but all I needed was a fairly decent lady who I can build a home with comfortably, I don't care if she doesn't work.
All I need is she having good education and knowing how to handle a family and her man. Not trying to impress people, other ladies or gossiping/finding people's affairs her business.
Any recommendation on how to get one?
I am 25 years young, graduated since 2012/2013 with a very good career which would last me a lifetime since I am my own boss. (Meaning I work for myself with some people managing my business).
While I was in school, I was that guy a lot of girls would go out with, I wouldn't say much but to cut it short (Money wasn't a problem) Not saying I spend money on girls but I roll pretty good enough to get almost any girl back then. of course I had all the fun when I was not in a serious relationship.
The girl I hoped to marry, I found out a lot of things that made me doubt our future together. Our relationship ended after about 2 years being together. (She's married now and with the way she's trying to tempt me into committing adultery, I'm glad I didn't marry her)
After graduation, I moved on my own to a new city where I settled. With time, got into a relationship which lasted just about 3-4 months with a working class girl before I called it a quit due to facts I discovered (double dater). Don't ask me how sure I was because getting to meet her later, she didn't get to deny it anymore, instead, she was still doing the same with me. (Sleeping with me while dating someone else) until I found out and did away wither her completely again.
Right about 2 years ago, I met this innocent looking beautiful girl I wouldn't need anyone to tell me she was a bit innocent, I pulled over, talked to her friend as she wouldn't alter any word at all, got her friend's contact and zoomed off after giving them a drop at their destination.
Getting to let her know my intentions was pretty hard as communication was a problem (claimed she doesn't have a phone then)
About a month later, I got to finally see her, she visited me and that was how we started off a relationship. (Then she was 19).
Then, I could never have wished for someone better as she was completely loyal and shy girl who doesn't want to be anywhere around strangers or people. During this time, she was in one of the tertiary institution already.
After sometime, things began to change, I could tell a lot of influence and youthful exuberance affecting her with few bad and irrelevant friends/activities.
She was no longer the girl I used to know,
Moving around was now a hobby, she wouldn't use any of her time productively, having misplaced priorities and found lies as a hobby.
Note that during this period, I made sure she didn't lack anything, was even a point she was pregnant and almost gave her one of my Cars I don't drive before an unexpected happened(she lost it, claimed she had an accident, next day the mother called me to complain of blood all over the bed, miscarriage) I didn't want to believe that was truly want happened and not her aborting it but I had no choice than to take it that way.
Note that during this time, her parents, brothers were fully aware of everything about us as they do always like to see me around. Things was all peaceful then until these youthful exuberance started affecting her and our relationship so bad until I called it a quit as she wasn't getting any better coupled with me spending too much money on her already and same time, getting a lot of reasons to see I might not get a peaceful home with her. Mostly out of careless utterances, how her parents trained her and other issues I found to be real troubles.
At a point we began having problems almost everyday that would require the family's attention, settle and advises here and there but things wasn't getting any better after much patience all along.
It was so painful to call it quit but I had no other option since the problems arising was too much and becoming too embarrassing to me and both the family even when its just a relationship.
Now this is my problem:
Having been in the previous relationship, I was such a faithful guy that I did away with a lot of things and no other girl.
I came from a home where I am the only guy with frequent questions about marriage from my dad (mum's late), some family members, people and some neighbours who feels I am in a best position to marry. (Maybe because I live comfortably enough, maybe because I leave decent enough with good morals) whatever the case is, I still think and wish to marry soon.
On my last relationship I just discontinued, I remember the dad always making mentions of her finishing her studies first (about at least 2-3 years more to go) and all that not yet talk. (All these while, things have not been good for the family so I gave her almost all the support.)
Discontinued the relationship was something I never saw coming or expected but it was the best thing to save me.
Now my problem is getting to start all over again.
How do I get a girl decent enough to consider as a wife?
Almost every girl I meet these days have to see me as one of those guys. (Though I am not very flashy but they think I look good or comfortable enough to be like every other guy as I am still very young)
I really don't want to let them know me to some certain extent because they might just give in because of that and not for doing the right thing/being real.
I finally made up a decision not dating any girl still in school because I can't cope with many of the nonsense they exhibits and all those childish ways of reasoning and acts.
I don't know how I can meet a more decent lady I can trust because I'm barely around people, I hate to pull over talking to a girl, I don't do gatherings and I can not find a girl I meet on a social media trustworthy.
The problem with most of the few ones I have met is they feel I am just like these other guys who just want to take advantage of them and move on to the next or they end up not having the characters of who I want as a wife.
I am not saying I ask for too much but all I needed was a fairly decent lady who I can build a home with comfortably, I don't care if she doesn't work.
All I need is she having good education and knowing how to handle a family and her man. Not trying to impress people, other ladies or gossiping/finding people's affairs her business.
Any recommendation on how to get one?
The Day I Almost Died After Checking My Girlfriend’s Phone (concluding Story)
Still in a state of uttermost disbelief, I went back to Cynthia’s chat with Felix as it was the most recent of her escapades.
Cynthia had sworn to me and some other corpers about how she can never give Mouth Gig as she used same mouth to praise God.
Well, Felix commended her to be one of the best Mouth Action giver ( Ah, I screamed!)
In the chat, he also requested for anal sex, which Cynthia obliged.
Probing further, I realised that Felix was a senior banking officer with a now defunct popular bank but stingy, as Cynthia complained in their chats, stating that the N4,000 she got as transport fare the last time was too small.
Cynthia also complained about the high fee of the hotel they used the last time, stating that it was too expensive. Na Wa oh! See my Christian girlfriend.
Apparently, I get to spend the money she couldn’t get from these guys because I am the ‘MuMu’ guy! Oh Lordie Lord!
I decided to take a walk to clear my head, I strolled round the school telling myself I must be one of the biggest fools alive.
I began to strategize on how to confront Cynthia. I thought it was best if I make a call ( as e dey hot).
I placed a call to Cynthia that night and confronted her with what I had discovered.
Cynthia immediately went on the offensive saying it was just chats bla bla bla. They were not true! ( I mean ladies are so good at lieing, Haaahaa??)
I told her I was done with her, it was over between us, that I would pack her things back to her room as we were living together. (Couple Corpers) .
She told me to do what pleased me and that she was disappointed I believed those mind blowing revelations in the chats.
At that point, I was confused and sceptical.
You know why?
Our corpers lodge was a mini FUJI house of commotion with fights everyday.
People make jest and mockery of themselves over every little thing.
Now, I was concerned about telling everyone what happened and moving Cynthia’s stuffs out of my room.
Being a ‘pokenose’ I was sure all the other corpers would want to sniff their noses around to know what exactly happened and I would be made mockery of, being the ‘MuMu’ in this case.
I was in another quagmire; I thought about what I could do to get this girl out of my life in the most subtle way possible.
While I was packing Cynthia’s things in my room, I came across a strange tablet. The hair on my head rose again, I have never come across such a table before.
The table was hexagon shaped with the imprint Searle 1451.
I decided to google the code and found out it was an abortion pill, I exclaimed Jesus.
Cynthia still ‘yabbed’ her friend Ada that last time they had a rancour as to how she had aborted twice.
How can someone who had done abortion criticize her fellow girlfriend of doing same. I was weak already, I became weaker.
Obviously realizing that I would have found out more damning information, Cynthia called back after 2 hours and began to beg, told me I should wait for her to come back from Lagos.
She lamented that it was because I refused to sleep with her which was why she had get it outside. Can you imagine?
During the few times we kissed and smooched, she would tell me to stop whenever I wanted to take it a step further. Cynthia told me point blank as a lady it was normal for her to feign refusal and I should have pushed harder.
Imagine, pushed harder ko! Then she would now accuse me of rape. Girls sha!
Cynthia came back two days later and started to beg and cajole me.
I had two options break up with her or stay.
Breaking up would have made the whole lodge know what was up.
I told her I would only stay if she agreed to share the honey pot with me. My mind was made up already and I tried to block all sort of emotional affiliations with her.
Believe me, it was difficult trying to get her out of my mind; the love, the sacrifices, how I thought I had already gotten a wife!
WoW!
I was pained deep down, but I knew I had no choice than to get her out of my mind!
I knew it would take time for me to forget about her completely, but for all my money’s worth! I must enjoy the honey pot as well, all the mouth action and what have you!
And so it began!
For the last 2 months of my NYSC we had mind blowing sex but I was having to spend more on her.
Now I realize that spending my money was my own decision and not because I love her! Hmmmn!
I treated her like the way the men she went to meet did!
As NYSC was about to come to an end, we both knew it had to end after pop in October, Cynthia demanded for my final Allawi N39800, because she needed to buy cloths in preparation for corporate world.
Well, I stupidly obliged. Till now, I still ask myself why I did that. Or can you please answer for me?
I went to back to PortHarcourt empty handed with no savings despite earning N19800 alawe, 5k state Allawi and 25k from my uncle monthly.
Even though I was played by Cynthia, I'm still glad I met her because the discovery opened my eyes! I became wiser and smarter to women and their evil machinations.
I also learned that most girls become bad most times due to the action of guys or what happened in the past.
Cynthia lost her Virginity to a guy some years back, who later sent her a text which she showed me.
You think I'm a fool, I know you used drugs to seal your honeypot to deceive me”.
That text, whether true or not did not move me one bit. I had been lied and played, and that was it!
Till today, I don’t bother checking my partner’s phone anymore as I have come to realize that no one is a saint and we all have our pasts.
Let me burst your bubble:
Late last year, my dear Cynthia got married to a pastor and till date, I still see her religious posts on Facebook which always make me reel with laughter.
But wait a minute guys, can Cynthia ever change?
Cynthia had sworn to me and some other corpers about how she can never give Mouth Gig as she used same mouth to praise God.
Well, Felix commended her to be one of the best Mouth Action giver ( Ah, I screamed!)
In the chat, he also requested for anal sex, which Cynthia obliged.
Probing further, I realised that Felix was a senior banking officer with a now defunct popular bank but stingy, as Cynthia complained in their chats, stating that the N4,000 she got as transport fare the last time was too small.
Cynthia also complained about the high fee of the hotel they used the last time, stating that it was too expensive. Na Wa oh! See my Christian girlfriend.
Apparently, I get to spend the money she couldn’t get from these guys because I am the ‘MuMu’ guy! Oh Lordie Lord!
I decided to take a walk to clear my head, I strolled round the school telling myself I must be one of the biggest fools alive.
I began to strategize on how to confront Cynthia. I thought it was best if I make a call ( as e dey hot).
I placed a call to Cynthia that night and confronted her with what I had discovered.
Cynthia immediately went on the offensive saying it was just chats bla bla bla. They were not true! ( I mean ladies are so good at lieing, Haaahaa??)
I told her I was done with her, it was over between us, that I would pack her things back to her room as we were living together. (Couple Corpers) .
She told me to do what pleased me and that she was disappointed I believed those mind blowing revelations in the chats.
At that point, I was confused and sceptical.
You know why?
Our corpers lodge was a mini FUJI house of commotion with fights everyday.
People make jest and mockery of themselves over every little thing.
Now, I was concerned about telling everyone what happened and moving Cynthia’s stuffs out of my room.
Being a ‘pokenose’ I was sure all the other corpers would want to sniff their noses around to know what exactly happened and I would be made mockery of, being the ‘MuMu’ in this case.
I was in another quagmire; I thought about what I could do to get this girl out of my life in the most subtle way possible.
While I was packing Cynthia’s things in my room, I came across a strange tablet. The hair on my head rose again, I have never come across such a table before.
The table was hexagon shaped with the imprint Searle 1451.
I decided to google the code and found out it was an abortion pill, I exclaimed Jesus.
Cynthia still ‘yabbed’ her friend Ada that last time they had a rancour as to how she had aborted twice.
How can someone who had done abortion criticize her fellow girlfriend of doing same. I was weak already, I became weaker.
Obviously realizing that I would have found out more damning information, Cynthia called back after 2 hours and began to beg, told me I should wait for her to come back from Lagos.
She lamented that it was because I refused to sleep with her which was why she had get it outside. Can you imagine?
During the few times we kissed and smooched, she would tell me to stop whenever I wanted to take it a step further. Cynthia told me point blank as a lady it was normal for her to feign refusal and I should have pushed harder.
Imagine, pushed harder ko! Then she would now accuse me of rape. Girls sha!
Cynthia came back two days later and started to beg and cajole me.
I had two options break up with her or stay.
Breaking up would have made the whole lodge know what was up.
I told her I would only stay if she agreed to share the honey pot with me. My mind was made up already and I tried to block all sort of emotional affiliations with her.
Believe me, it was difficult trying to get her out of my mind; the love, the sacrifices, how I thought I had already gotten a wife!
WoW!
I was pained deep down, but I knew I had no choice than to get her out of my mind!
I knew it would take time for me to forget about her completely, but for all my money’s worth! I must enjoy the honey pot as well, all the mouth action and what have you!
And so it began!
For the last 2 months of my NYSC we had mind blowing sex but I was having to spend more on her.
Now I realize that spending my money was my own decision and not because I love her! Hmmmn!
I treated her like the way the men she went to meet did!
As NYSC was about to come to an end, we both knew it had to end after pop in October, Cynthia demanded for my final Allawi N39800, because she needed to buy cloths in preparation for corporate world.
Well, I stupidly obliged. Till now, I still ask myself why I did that. Or can you please answer for me?
I went to back to PortHarcourt empty handed with no savings despite earning N19800 alawe, 5k state Allawi and 25k from my uncle monthly.
Even though I was played by Cynthia, I'm still glad I met her because the discovery opened my eyes! I became wiser and smarter to women and their evil machinations.
I also learned that most girls become bad most times due to the action of guys or what happened in the past.
Cynthia lost her Virginity to a guy some years back, who later sent her a text which she showed me.
You think I'm a fool, I know you used drugs to seal your honeypot to deceive me”.
That text, whether true or not did not move me one bit. I had been lied and played, and that was it!
Till today, I don’t bother checking my partner’s phone anymore as I have come to realize that no one is a saint and we all have our pasts.
Let me burst your bubble:
Late last year, my dear Cynthia got married to a pastor and till date, I still see her religious posts on Facebook which always make me reel with laughter.
But wait a minute guys, can Cynthia ever change?
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)